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26

Mar

APE IN A CAPE: When Someone Says...

gailsimone:

willowfish:

mercuryandmoonlight:

thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

shawnschulte:

idstudios:

gailsimone:

“I have black friends,” or, “I have gay friends,” or, “most of my friends are women,”…

…and you just know the next thing they say is going to be hideous and bigoted…

…don’t you just want to punch something?

GOD YES.

This happens more…

I’ve just learned to stop listening whenever some bigoted asshole tries to use a phrase like this to claim that they’re not bigoted

I know I won’t be missing out on anything of worth by ignoring every word they say

Sorry but sometimes a person has a legitimate reason for saying “I have gay/black/etc friends”. For example, a girl I knew who was not physically attracted to black men was called racist by a black man who wanted to date her and she said she was sorry but she was not attracted to him and he accused her of racism. She pointed out the fact that her best friend is black and that she just wasn’t attracted to him. How is what she said bigoted? Should we be guilted into dating someone we are not attracted to simply because they belong to an oppressed minority?

Sorry, anyway….

My brain just snapped in a hundred directions.

I don’t understand how people can say their not attracted to certain races, im a black guy, and I think all women of all races or beautiful. Does that mean im attracted to every woman I see, no, but you would never catch me saying hispanic women or ugly, or, asian women or not attractive. Anyone who says there not attracted to a certain race, is a racist. If the girl above, said she was not attracted to a certain guy, thats her right, she does not have to date him, but to say their not attracted to people of a certain race is raciest. 

19

Jan

The other point I want to make here, which goes back to my objection to anti-black racism being used as a rhetorical device by those who will never face it, is that black people engage in tons of behaviours to make white people feel safer. We do this all the damn time. We make accommodations in speech, behaviour, dress, mannerism, conversation topic – a wide diversity of adjustments that we make in the presence of our white friends. We want them to feel comfortable around us, and we accept the inherent racism of the need for such changes. The fact that you rail against its manifest unfairness is indicative of the fact that you have no idea we’re doing it – which means, in turn, that we’re doing it well.
Crommunist

(Source: goodmenproject.com)

17

Jan

In film, black people are also shown in a stereotypical manner that promotes notions of moral inferiority. In terms of female movie characters shown by race:

Using vulgar profanity: black people 89 percent, white people 17 percent
Being physically violent: black people 56 percent, white people 11 percent
Being restrained: black people 55 percent, white people 6 percent

Wikipedia

NPR: Negative Images "Brainwash" African Americans